From the time that I was a little girl, I was curious as to why my relationships were sometimes vanity, even through elementary, middle school, high school, and moving into womanhood. Relationship after relationship was vanity, vanity, vanity up until the year of 1990, the year I received salvation. The entire book of Ecclesiastes is a declaration and confirmation of God's manifestation of moving me from vanity to victory in relationships. I encourage you to read it as the Lord carried me through my storms of life in the ten chapters of this book. Each relationship was a challenge to just give up on the present relationship I was in vanity with. The way that I was able to defeat the vanity and go to victory in my relationships up to this point in my life is through the Word of God, and I took my trials and test and found the good out of them instead of complaining. And I looked at myself instead of looking at the relationship issues. Glory to God to the most high. God did it. God will. God shall take you from vanity to victory in relationships.