The idea of looking forward to something that is not promised can lead to the realization of...

Think about the manner in which the magic of love influences us in movies. We experience the ups, downs, happiness, heartbreaks, and triumph of each character. Now add a beautifully crafted soundtrack to capture each instance of love, pain, regret, lost opportunities, and the "happily ever after" moment that makes it easy to fall in love with love. Beautiful isn't it, emotional right, just feels real, and maybe, just maybe, we can have that for ourselves. But we need to realize that this script was created to develop a bond between the audience and characters. A bond with their story lines, desires, and their emotional cycles that we can all connect to. Your mistake occurs when you put on your blinders and only receive the messages that make you feel good while ignoring the BAD.

Take a deep breath, hold it for three seconds, & and calmly exhale. Grab a hold of yourself and recognize the moment you are in, how you got here, and where you would like to go next. The mind can play tricks based on what you have seen, heard, and felt. Now you are looking for security huh, a safe place to be, tranquility, something to comfort the culmination of your life through to this date and time. Your emotional needs just want to belong, be accepted, & celebrated. Damn a warm blanket and a glass of adult juice gets old after while right. The tequila cannot hide truth for too long...