In my previous three books, "Six steps towards the Dancing Cloud", "Laser steps to Dancing Cloud" and "Business steps to Dancing Cloud", I described the steps of the ladder that led me to where my house is now. Walking in the mornings in the nearby Wetlands Park, I realized that not only the steps themselves are important, but also the reasons, why I chose them, and not some others. Facts and events, that, it seems to me, directly or indirectly motivated the direction of my life path, are described in this book. In particular, the reader will learn the reasons why I parted from my old, beloved home, in which I grew up and in which I dreamed of meeting my old age.