How do sex and love entwine? They should be seamless, but they rarely are. We all carry so much baggage from religion, childhood, peer pressure and personal foibles. This is a stark, graphic, often brutal and humorously quixotic look at someone who never seemed to find the balance between the two. A successful, creative man with a picaresque history who falls deeply in love, just as he discovers his libido is betraying him . With an honesty that borders on the pornographic, this book gives women a different view of what goes on inside the head of a philanderer and shows how even the worst cynics can fall head over heels.